Using Body Language Techniques > Using Body Language
Message clusters | Parts-of-body language | Other notes | See also
Body language is an important part of communication which can constitute 50% or more of what we are communicating. If you wish to communicate well, then it makes sense to understand how you can (and cannot) use your body to say what you mean.
Message clusters
Body language comes in clusters of signals and postures, depending on the internal emotions and mental states. Recognizing a whole cluster is thus far more reliable than trying to interpret individual elements.
* Aggressive body language: Showing physical threat.
* Attentive body language: Showing real interest.
* Bored body language: Just not being interested.
* Closed body language: Many reasons are closed.
* Deceptive body language: Seeking to cover up lying or other deception.
* Defensive body language: Protecting self from attack.
* Dominant body language: Dominating others.
* Emotional body language: Identifying feelings.
* Evaluating body language: Judging and deciding about something.
* Greeting body language: Meeting rituals.
* Open body language: Many reasons for being open.
* Power body language: Demonstrating one's power.
* Ready body language: Wanting to act and waiting for the trigger.
* Relaxed body language: Comfortable and unstressed.
* Romantic body language: Showing attraction to others.
* Submissive body language: Showing you are prepared to give in.
Parts-of-the-body language
You can send signals with individual parts of the body as well as in concert. Here's details of the contributions of each part of the body.
* Head: Face, Cheek, Chin, Mouth, Lips, Teeth, Tongue, Nose, Eyes, Eyebrow, Forehead, Hair
* Arm: Elbow, Hand, Finger
* Torso: Neck, Shoulder, Chest, Back, Belly, Bottom, Hips
* Legs: Thigh, Knee, Foot
Other notes
* Emphasis with body language: Adding emphasis to what you are saying.
* Social distances: The space between us.
* Body language caveat: You can't control all of your muscles. So why bother?
* Touching: Using physical touch.
